Personality Development


A small truth to make our Life’s 100% successful…

If A B C D E F G H I J K L M N O P Q R S T U V W X Y Z
is equal to 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11 12 13 14 15 16 17 18 19 20 21 22 23 24 25 26.

Then, H+A+R+D+W+O+R+K = 8+1+18+4+23+15+18+11 = 98%

K+N+O+W+L+E+D+G+E = 11+14+15+23+12+5+4+7+5 = 96%

L+O+V+E=12+15+22+5=54%

L+U+C+K = 12+21+3+11 = 47%

(None of them makes 100%)…

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Then what makes 100% ?

Is it Money? …

…No!!!!!

Leadership? …

…NO!!!!

Every problem has a solution, only if we perhaps change our

“ATTITUDE”

It is OUR ATTITUDE towards Life and Work that makes…

OUR Life 100% Successful…

A+T+T+I+T+U+D+E = 1+20+20+9+20+21+4+5 = 100%

To achieve this 100% attitude, you must !!! be disciplined in life……yes that reminds me…

Even D+I+S+C+I+P+L+I+N+E = 100%

Don’t you think so?

1. My hands are small; please don’t expect
perfection whenever I make a bed, draw a picture
or throw a ball. My legs are short; please slow
down so that I can keep up with you.

2. My eyes have not seen the world as yours have;
please let me explore safely. Don’t restrict me unnecessarily.

3. Housework will always be there. I’m only
little for a short time, please take time to
explain things to me about this wonderful
world and do so willingly.

4. My feelings are tender; please be sensitive to my needs.
Don’t nag me all day long. ( You wouldn’t want to be nagged for
your inquisitiveness). Treat me as you would like to be treated.

5. I am a special gift from God; please treasure me as God intended
you to do, holding me accountable for my actions, giving me guidelines
to live by and disciplining me in a loving manner.

6. I need your encouragement to grow. Please go easy on the criticism;
remember, you can criticize the things I do without criticizing me.

7. Please give me the freedom to make decisions concerning myself.
Permit me to fail, so that I can learn from my mistakes. Then someday
I’ll be prepared to make the kinds of decisions that life requires of me.

8. Please don’t do things over for me.
Somehow that makes me feel that my efforts
didn’t quite measure up to your expectations.
I know it’s hard, but please don’t try to
compare me to my brother or sister.

9. Please don’t be afraid to leave for a weekend together.
Kids need vacations from parents, just as parents need vacations
from kids. Besides, it’s a great way to show us kids that
your marriage is very special.

10. Please take me to church or synagogue regularly, setting a good
example for me to follow. I enjoy learning more about God.

A Friend….
(A)ccepts you as you are
(B)elieves in “you”
(C)alls you just to say “HI”
(D)oesn’t give up ! ! on you

(E)nvisions the whole of you (even the unfinished parts)
(F)orgives your mistakes
(G)ives unconditionally
(H)elps you
(I)nvites you over

(J)ust “be” with you
(K)eeps you close at heart
(L)oves you for who you are
(M)akes a difference in your life

(N)ever Judges
(O)ffer support
(P)icks you up
(Q)uiets your fears
(R)aises your spirits

(S)ays nice things about you
(T)ells you the truth when you need to hear it
(U)nderstands you
(V)alues you

(W)alks beside you
(X)-plains thing you don’t understand
(Y)ells when you won’t listen and
(Z)aps you back to reality

OK THIS IS A TEST TO SEE HOW MANY FRIENDS YOU HAVE!!!!
PASS IT ON TO EVERYONE YOU CONSIDER A FRIEND
OR WOULD LIKE TO HAVE AS A FRIEND
SEE HOW MANY TIMES YOU GET IT BACK !!

1. Put a coat on your eyelashes before you go to bed. Lots of people swear by this – and say it will make your lashes grow longer and thicker over time.2. Put a coat of vaseline on your feet at night, cover them with socks and wake up to softer feet – every day!3. Put vaseline on your elbows every day – they will stay soft!4. Put Vaseline on your cuticles several times a day for softer and better looking cuticles every day.5. Put Vaseline on chapped lips6. Use Vaseline as lip gloss7. Mix a little vaseline with a little Kool-Aid powder and make a colored and flavored lip gloss!8. Melt vaseline and one chocolate chip in the microwave, mix and let resolidify for chocolate lip gloss!9. Maintains perfume scent longer when applied at perfume points before spritzing the perfume.10. Can be used as a moisturizer for acne sufferers (it is a misconception that it clogs pores)11. Moisturizes severe dry skin12. Use Vaseline on your knees to prevent that dry, ashy look13. Mix with sea salts to make a scrub!14. Applying Vaseline on your teeth prevents lips from sticking to teeth for celebrities and contestants in beauty pageants who smile a lot15. Applied on teeth before applying lipstick prevents lipstick from sticking on them16. Massage, baby!17. Warmed up can be used as a night cream18. Makeup remover19. Protects skin exposed to adverse weather20. Applied under eye shadow it can create a shiny effect21. Applied on cheeks for a dewy look22. Can be used to smooth and soothe skin after shaving23. Used in manicures under cuticles24. Gets rid of dry skin lines which can arise from washing25. Lubricates ear lobes and helps to make earring insertion easy and painless26. Keeps fingernails pliable and resilient27. Use with your lipstick to create a cream blusher for your cheeks28. Helps to ease off stuck on rings29. Tames unruly eyebrows30. Defines eyelashes and leaves them with a glossy and waterproof look31. Conditions scalp pre-shampooing32. Can help prevent chaffing33. Aids with healing after cosmetic surgery procedures34. Reduces scaling and itching associated with dandruff35. Theraputic when applied to lesions caused by poison ivy36. Can help improve condition of those with atopic eczema37. Helps heal and protect new tattoos38. Can protect against harmful hair dyeing, perming and straightening chemicals when used as a mask around the hairline39. Use a tiny dab to put a quick shine on your shoes and bags40. Smear a tiny bit on your hands and scrunch through your hair for a choppy look41. Use just a touch on the ends of your hair to hide dry and split ends42. Remove makeup stains from clothing43. Rub Vaseline on the neck of your nail polish bottles and they won’t get stuck to the caps44. Make your week old nail polish look new again – rub a small dab over the polish.45. Use a touch of Vaseline mixed with powder eyeshadow pigment to make new colors, or a more solid eyeshadow that won’t get all over your face when you put it on.46. Stretch your favorite lotion by mixing it with Vaseline.47. Put Vaseline on your lips, leave it a few minutes, then scrub your lips with a toothbrush to exfoliate and leave them SO smooth48. Remove false eyelash glue from your lash line49. Apply a small amount on dry spots on your body before fake tanning lotions are applied, and prevent uneven tanning!50. Generously apply Vaseline all over before taking flights to combat associated dryness

ANNIVERSARIES

Always celebrate! Whether it’s the 1st or the 50th, each year together is a triumph.

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APPRECIATION

Let each other know how much you appreciate each other. You may already know but hearing it from each other is always better.

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BEST FRIENDS

Be best friends preferably before being boyfriend-girlfrien d.

Take time to know each other so the relationship will be a deep one. Tell each other about your crushes, dreams and problems. Make sure he/she is your best friend before getting engaged. The strong bond of friendship will help you both survive tough times.

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BOND

Make it a point to spend time together often but leave room for each other. Also spend time alone w/ each other, so that at the end of the day you could both share your experiences. This way, you stay interesting with your partner.

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COMPLIMENTS

Always compliment each other. This will prevent feelings of resentment & thinking that one is being taken for granted.

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DATE

Keep doings things that you both enjoy, do them together. Make time & continue to date to keep the romance – look good, smell good to maintain physical attraction

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DIFFERENCES

Celebrate differences. Never force your ideologies down each other’s throat. Give up trying to turn your partner into you. Accept differences, appreciate them.

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FIGHTS

Fight w/the aim to resolve the issue. Don’t outdo each other. The longer you extend the fight.

The more chances that you’ll say something hurtful that you don’t really mean. As mad as you were w/ your partner, he/she is still the person who laughs at your jokes & thinks you’re hot. Hear each other out, don’t dig up old issues. Choose your battles.

Make sure the fight will be worth it & that something will change in the relationship as a result of the fight.

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FLAWS

Know that the perfect person does not exist. Know that just as there are things that you love about him/her, there will be things that will make you go crazy. We are only human with our own flaws.

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FUN

Have fun together! This means keeping the fun & spontaneity that was there in the early days.

Allow yourselves to get silly. Being able to make each other laugh & see the lighter, crazier, absurd side is the best way to get through all the differences in personalities, adjustments in lifestyle & opposing viewpoints.

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GOALS

Make sure you have similar goals. It would be difficult to keep your bond intact if your views are complete opposite.

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GRUDGES

Quit tabulating grudges. Let it off. Discuss it, then trash it, don’t recycle it.

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KEEPING IT HOT

Keep it hot by traveling to diff. places together. A new setting will do wonders. Always have skin contact – be it holding hands, a massage or just plain leg rubbing.

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HONESTY

Don’t lie or hide things. The problem will only get bigger.

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KNOW EACH OTHER

Learn each other’s interest. It really keeps the conversation flowing!

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HUG

A hug can be far better more intimate than a kiss.

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IDENTITY

Don’t lose your personality – that’s why he/she fell in love w/you. Have separate interest & activities to keep your individual, & to be able to contribute more to the relationship.

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INDEPENDENCE

Having your own income means you’re the boss in your life.

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IN-LAWS

Make rooms for the in-laws.

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INTENTIONS

Wish each other well. Don’t wish each other worst

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ISSUES

Speak up about the awkward stuff now, like money & sex. The earlier, the better.

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LISTEN

Listen, listen, listen. Hear each other out especially during arguments.

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LOOK GOOD

Mind your appearance! Stay fit & healthy for each other.

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LOVE

It all boils down to your love, chemistry & respect for each other.

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MEMORIES

Remind each other of the old days. Do something that you used to do for each other before. It may even be corny but it made you two together. Experience new things together- from dining into a new restaurant to experiencing street food together to exploring to new places.

It’s the little surprises that make great memories.

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MIND READING

No matter how long you’ve been together, do not think that you can read each other’s mind.

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NEEDS

Be good to yourself, then be good to your partner. That’s what love is all about. Think about your partner. Will it make him/her happy? Will she/he enjoy it? Consider each other’s feelings.

Be very attentive & sensitive to each other’s needs, physically & emotionally, that way your partner learns to do the same for you. Never take your partner for granted.

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PRIORITIES

If one says it’s important, then it is! Prioritize each other among other things!

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SPACE

Give each other space. Have your boy’s night out. If you can’t trust each other with this, then don’t get married.

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SORRY

Say sorry when you’re wrong.

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SURPRISES

No matter how long you’ve known each other, be open to surprises, both good or bad.

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TEAMWORK

Think for two & always work as a team. Consult each other before making a decision because everything will always affect both of you. Strengthen couple power. In many ways, we have to decide based on what is best for the relationship in favor of our individual selves.

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SUPPORT

Support each other’s dream. Be willing to follow your passions, support your partner in his/her decisions & create new ones together. Two heads are better than one.

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TALK

Tell each other’s stories. Life goes by so fast & its easy to see how easily couple can grow apart. Whenever something funny, scary, exciting or juicy happened to you or to someone you know, tell each other about it & have your partner do the same. Keep each other in the loop of life.

What I Want In A Man, Original List … (at age 22)

1. Handsome
2. Charming
3. Financially Successful
4. A Caring Listener
5. Witty
6. In Good Shape
7. Dresses with Style
8. Appreciates the Finer Things
9. Full of Thoughtful Surprises
10. An Imaginative, Romantic Lover

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What I Want In A Man, Revised List … (at age 32)

1. Nice Looking – preferably with hair on his head
2. Opens car doors, holds chairs
3. Has enough money for a nice dinner at restaurant
4. Listens more than he talks
5. Laughs at my jokes at appropriate times
6. Can carry in all the groceries with ease
7. Owns at least one tie
8. Appreciates a good home cooked meal
9. Remembers Birthdays and Anniversaries
10. Seeks romance at least once a week

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What I Want In A Man, Revised List … (at age 42)

1. Not too ugly – bald head OK
2. Doesn’t drive off until I’m in the car
3. Works steady – splurges on dinner at McDonalds on occasion
4. Nods head at appropriate times when I’m talking
5. Usually remembers the punchlines of jokes
6. Is in good enough shape to rearrange the furniture
7. Usually wears shirt that covers stomach
8. Knows not to buy champagne with screw-top lids
9. Remembers to put the toilet seat lid down
10. Shaves on most weekends

A man went to a barbershop to have his hair cut and his beard trimmed.

As the barber began to work, they began to have a good conversation.

They talked about so many things and various subjects. When they eventually touched on the subject of God, the barber said: “I don’t believe that God exists.”

” Why do you say that?”asked the customer.

“Well, you just have to go out in the street to realize that God doesn’t exist.

Tell me, if God exists,would there be so many sick people? Would there be abandoned children? If God existed, there would be neither suffering nor pain. I can’t imagine loving a God who would allow all of these things.”

The customer thought for a moment, but didn’t respond because he didn’t want to start an argument.

The barber finished his job and the customer left the shop. Just after he left the barbershop, he saw a man in the street with long, stringy, dirty hair and an untrimmed beard. He looked dirty and un-kept.

The customer turned back and entered the barber shop again and he said to the barber: “You know what? Barbers do not exist.”

” How can you say that?”asked the surprised barber. “I am here, and I am a barber.And I just worked on you!”

“No!” the customer exclaimed. “Barbers don’t exist because if they did, there would be no people with dirty long hair and untrimmed beards, like that man outside.”

“Ah, but barbers DO exist! What happens is, people do not come to me.”

“Exactly !”- affirmed the customer. “That’s the point! God, too, DOES exist! What happens, is, people don’t go to Him and do not look for Him. That’s why there’s so much pain and suffering in the world.”

A nice story about the importance of a woman…

Why are you crying, a young boy asked his Mom?

“Because I’m a woman,” she told him.
“I don’t understand,” he said.

His Mom just hugged him and said,
“And you never will, but that’s O.K.”…….

Later the little boy asked his father, “Why does Mom seem to cry for no reason?”.
“All women cry for no reason,” was all his Dad could say……

The little boy grew up and became a man,
still wondering why women cry.

Finally he put in a call to God and when God got back to him, he asked
“God, why do women cry so easily?”

GOD answered…. .. “When I made woman,
I decided she had to be special.
I made her shoulders strong enough to carry the weight of the world,
yet, made her arms gentle enough to give comfort… !

I gave her the inner strength, to endure childbirth and the rejection
that many times will come even from her own children.

I gave her a hardness that allows her to keep going and take care of her family and friends,
even when everyone else gives up, through sickness and fatigue without complaining. …

I gave her the sensitivity to love her children under any and all circumstances.
Even when her child has hurt her badly….

She has the very special power to make a child’s boo-boo feel better and to quell a teenager’s anxieties and fears….

I gave her strength to care for her husband,
despite faults and I fashioned her from his rib to protect his heart….

I gave her wisdom to know that a good husband never hurts his wife,
but sometimes tests her’s strengths and her resolve to stand beside him unfalteringly. …

For all of this hard work, I also gave her a tear to shed.
It is hers to use whenever needed and it is her only weakness….
When you see her cry, tell her how much you love her,
and all she does for everyone, and even though she may still cry,
you will have made her heart feel good.
She is special!
send this to all the women you know, and those with mothers, sisters, and special women in their lives.
But, also send this to men so they will understand about what a wonderful thing a woman is!

Like Munnabhai, I too am a hugger and sometimes crave a hug. The secure feeling when wrapped in someone’s arms is such a pleasurable feeling. I grew up in a family that hugged often and I have always shared hugs with my relatives, friends and pets too!

By Hugging You are expressing your feelings. Love, understanding, joy of seeing someone, reassurance, support, comfort, happiness.

We all need hugs from time to time.
I have read one article -The importance of Hugging. Hope you will enjoy reading,

The article details the first week of life of a set of twins. Apparently, each were in their respective incubators, and one was not expected to live. A hospital nurse fought against the hospital rules and placed the babies in one incubator. When they were placed together, the healthier of the two threw an arm over her sister in an endearing embrace. The smaller baby’s heart rate stabilized and her temperature rose to normal.
They both survived, and are thriving! In fact, now that the two girls are home, they still sleep together, and still snuggle. The hospital changed their policy after they saw the effect of putting the two girls together, and now they bed multiples together

“How important are hugging and physical and emotional contact for people affected by life – threatening illnesses? People who receive nurturing maintain a better outlook on their situation — and historically, positive attitude is an important factor in long-term survival. Hugging and physical contact make a difference in a person’s frame of mind, and may help their medical condition. Best of all, hugging has no side effects and does not require a trip to the doctor.

Hugging is good medicine. It transfers energy, and gives the person hugged an emotional boost. You need four hugs a day for survival, eight for maintenance, and twelve for growth. A hug makes you feel good. It is also a form of communication. It can say things you don’t have words for. The nicest thing about a hug is that you usually can’t give one without getting one.

Hugging is healthy: it helps the body’s immunity system, it keeps you healthier, it cures depression, it reduces stress, it induces sleep, it’s invigorating, it’s rejuvenating, it has no unpleasant side effects, and hugging is nothing less than a miracle drug. A real ‘Jadu’ Ki jappi!

What is the Difference Between a CV and a Resume?

Is there a difference?

I imagine that many people, on reading the title of this article, laughed smugly to themselves, then wandered off thinking vague thoughts about the English and Americans having different names for the same thing. If you were one of these people, then don’t worry – you’re right! Or at least you’re partially right. In general, CVs are used throughout most of the world, while resumes are the common format in America. However, there are significant differences between the two documents, and if you plan to succeed in the employment market it is important that you are familiar with the features and uses of both. Let’s go through them one at a time.

The differences in brief

At first glance, the differences between the two seem slight. Both consist of a structured list of facts that allows you to impart relevant information about your skills and achievements to an employer as quickly and simply as possible.

Although in essence they both serve the same purpose, the main difference between a CV and a resume is that a CV acts as a complete record of your professional history, while a resume is a short, targeted list of transferable skills and accomplishments, intended to show how you can be of specific benefit to the particular company to which you are applying..

As I mentioned earlier, throughout most of the world, the CV is the standard format for job applications. However, in the US, resumes are more common, and CVs are reserved almost completely for jobs in academia or when applying for grants. As a result, many international workers possess both a CV and a resume and choose between them as necessary.

In the following sections, I shall discuss the features of each type of document in more detail, and close with a brief look at how to decide which one is best for you.

Features of a CV

A CV, or Curriculum Vitae, to give it its Latin name, is an account of your entire education and employment history. The term translates as ‘course of life’, and it really is that – a record of your working life so far. It is far more detailed than a resume, from which elements are often excluded if they are considered irrelevant. A CV should include everything you’ve ever done, listed in reverse chronological order, to make it easier to prioritise more recent information. As a result, a CV is longer than a resume, although two pages is the recommended length.

Information in a CV is arranged according to subheadings, to make it easier for the reader to quickly skim through and find the information he or she needs. Remember, your CV is intended to let prospective employers find out about you in the hope that they will offer you a job, so it’s in your interest to make it easy to understand!

The sections of a CV may include the following, although many sections can be moved up or down depending on what information is relevant for the specific job.

Profile/Objectives – a short statement, tailored to fit the requirements of the prospective employer;
Education/Qualifica tions – a list of institutions and courses, with grades awarded and dates attended;
Skills/Competencies – any skills or achievements that are relevant to the job. You can include most things, but be sensible – there is no need to mention the 10m swimming badge you got when you were six!
Career Summary – this should be the most detailed part, it can be moved higher up the document if necessary. Each job should have a short description of the skills you used and your achievements within the role. A few bullet points are sufficient, with more detailed accounts of more recent/relevant positions.

Features of a resume

A resume should be a shorter, more focused account of your relevant skills and achievements. Although the exact length of a resume is open to debate, in general it should not exceed one page in length, and it’s safer to be conventional; after all, you want to get the job. It’s fine to miss things out of a resume to keep the length down; you should only include the things that are most relevant to the position you are targeting. Resumes also often miss out some of the more personal details that CVs include, such as hobbies and interests.

As with CVs, resumes are usually organised into a few essential sections. However, one key difference between a CV and a resume is that resumes are focused on your skills and accomplishments, rather than providing an objective account of your history. As a result, resumes often feature aggrandising language, and tend to be more obviously self-promoting than CVs.

You can afford to be a bit less formal with the structure of a resume than with a CV, and there is a wider scope for creative presentation. That said, there are three main formats that are generally used:

Chronological – this is the most common format, and is very similar in organisation to a CV;
Functional – your skills/qualificatio ns act as a backbone, around which the rest of the resume is structured;
Focused – as above, but with the content organised in relation to the targeted position.

It is often better to stick to one of these tried and tested formats than to attempt to wow an employer with your own unique design. These have a chance of backfiring if your reader doesn’t like them, so why take the risk? The only time I could see the point of designing your own format is if you are entering a creative field, such as design.

What to use, and when to use it

The general rule to go by here is that if you are in America, use a resume, and if you are anywhere else in the world, use a CV. However, if you are applying for an academic position, or for a grant, it is better to send a CV, regardless of where you are. Things are further complicated by the rising popularity in the UK of short CVs, which, at less than two pages, are confusingly similar to a resume.

One of the main reasons to have a short CV was to stand out from the crowd, but almost everybody follows this model and it no longer has the same impact as it used to. As a result, the old style of CV is making a comeback, for the same reasons that it disappeared in the first place.. Whether you choose to follow the trend, or stick with convention is up to you. Personally, I have both kinds, and I decide which version to send out on a per-company basis.

In fact, it is safer to make two versions anyway. Set aside some time and write yourself both a CV and a resume; it doesn’t take much effort, and it means that you’ll always have the correct document to hand, whatever you are asked for. You can even hire a copywriting agency to do it for you. Copywriters write both CVs and resumes on a regular basis, and will be familiar with the conventions of each. If you don’t want to pay for a copywriter, have a look at some CV and resume samples and use them to help you write your own.

You’d be surprised how many people don’t know the difference between a CV and a resume. Whichever one you decide to go for, follow the conventions and write to the strengths of your chosen format, and the interviews should come flooding in. You’ll soon be on your way to that dream job.

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